It can be hard when a child acts out. You might wonder if it is just a phase. You might worry it is more. Sometimes behavior is a sign that a child is having trouble learning or growing in important ways. This kind of trouble is called a developmental delay. Here, we explain what that means. We share simple signs to watch for. We also show what parents can do and how Ancient Of Days Psychiatry can help.
What Is a Developmental Delay?
A developmental delay means a child is not reaching skills at the usual time. These skills include talking, moving, thinking, or playing with others. Some children grow in every way. Others take more time to learn certain skills. A delay is not the child’s fault. It is a sign the child needs a bit more help.
How Could It Affect Behavior?
When a child finds things hard, they may get upset. They may cry more. They may have big meltdowns. A child who cannot say what they need may act out. A child who cannot follow simple steps may seem stubborn. A child who cannot play with others may seem lonely or angry. These are ways a delay can show up as behavior.
10 Signs to Watch For
- Slow Speech: The child uses few words. They do not point or name things like other kids their age.
- Trouble Understanding: The child seems lost when you give simple directions.
- Poor Motor Skills: They trip a lot, drop things, or find it hard to hold a crayon.
- Hard Time With Friends: The child does not join play or has trouble taking turns.
- Limited Play: They play the same way for a long time and do not pretend or imagine.
- Late Toilet Learning: They struggle much longer than peers with potty skills.
- Trouble With Routine: New tasks and small changes make the child very upset.
- Little Eye Contact: The child avoids looking at others when talking or playing.
- Difficulty Learning New Things: They need many repeats to learn a simple task.
- Big Emotions: They cry, scream, or hit more than peers when frustrated.
If you see several of these signs, it may mean your child needs support.
What You Can Do Next
Stay Calm
- Your love helps your child feel safe.
Write Notes
- Keep a short list of what you see. Note when it happens.
Talk To Your Pediatrician
- Share your notes and ask for a check.
Ask For Testing
- Early testing can find where the child needs help.
Use Simple Words
- Speak in short sentences and give one instruction at a time.
Offer Choices
- Let the child pick between two safe options. This can reduce meltdowns.
Keep Routines
- Predictable days help a child feel secure.
How We Help at Ancient of Days Psychiatry
At Ancient Of Days Psychiatry, we know every child is unique. We offer care for Developmental Delays and Child & Adolescent Behavioral Issues. We also treat Mood Disorders, ADHD, Trauma and Grief, and more. Susan Gilbert, our board-certified Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner, leads our team with skill and care. We mix clinical tools with kindness. We listen to your story. We make a plan that fits your child.
Here is how we work with families:
- Careful Assessment: We meet with you and your child. We ask simple questions. We watch how your child plays and talks.
- Clear Plan: We explain what we see in plain words. We share steps you can take right away.
- Team Work: We may work with teachers, therapists, and doctors. We help everyone stay on the same page.
- Ongoing Support: We follow up to see how your child is doing. We change the plan as needed.
We provide a safe space to explore concerns and work toward lasting change. Your story matters. Your healing is our mission.
Simple Tips to Help Your Child at Home
- Short Directions: Say one thing at a time, like “Pick up toy.”
- Use Pictures: Show a picture for each step. This helps memory.
- Praise Small Wins: Say “Good job!” right away. This helps build new skills.
- Break Tasks Down: Split tasks into tiny steps.
- Calm Corner: Make a quiet spot with a soft pillow and books. Use it for calm time.
- Play Together: Spend a few minutes a day playing their way. Join in their game.
When To Seek Professional Help
Look for help if you feel worried or unsure. Trust your gut. If your child falls behind other kids by many months, ask for a check. If behaviors get worse or stop improving, reach out. Early help often makes a big difference.
What Parents Often Feel
Parents may feel sad, worried, or guilty. These feelings are normal. It is okay to ask for help. We support both the child and the family. You do not have to go through this alone.
How To Prepare for A Visit with Us
- Bring a short list of what you see.
- Note any big changes in sleep, food, or school.
- Bring reports from teachers if you have them.
- Tell us what helps calm your child.
- Ask any questions you have. We will reply in straightforward terms.
Conclusion
A developmental delay can change how a child acts. It does not mean the child will not grow. With early help, children can learn many new skills. We at Ancient Of Days Psychiatry are here to listen and help. We blend the mind, body, and spirit in care. If you worry about your child, you are not alone. Reach out. We will meet you with care and respect.
We offer services for various challenges, including developmental delays, ADHD, and mood disorders. Our team, led by Susan Gilbert, is here to support you and your child.
FAQs
How can Ancient Of Days Psychiatry help?
We do careful checks, make a clear plan, and work with your child and family. Susan Gilbert leads our team with care.
Will my child be okay?
Many children learn new skills with help. Early support often makes a big difference.
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